Lack of friends, not being in the cool crowd, not being good at sports, a girl or boy doesnt like you, not having the nicest clothing, pimples, etc.

I had em all but didnt get down. Its all good now. I understand that we were all geeks when we were young.

Peace

*16
* anorexia and purging
* severe diagnosed depression
* anxiety
* suicidal thoughts-close to acing on
*cutting

My question is- What treatment will I get eg hospital, in/out patient, counselling etc

you probabaly wont go to the hospital unless your dying, but heressome things that may happen:

-put into a treatment center
-get councling
-go to treatment sessions

Great question!

I think an original paper would include an argument about how a teenager has responsibilities now that we did not have before howevewr, we once had a long time ago.

Look up the study called: "Will Teenagers Disappear?" This is an excellent paper that raises a very positive argument about youth in the modern world, and the challengesd we face now, as well, how we will become adults in the future.

Or, use it as your question, but you will have to reword it.

My son's 16, an honor roll student. He also has Asperger's, social anxiety, ADD & depression. He's excelled academically through the help of a very good therapist, meds, sheer will & hard work. But his perfectionistic tendencies also work against him and cause him greater anxiety, as his work and pace is extremely slow.

School's just started, and I can tell he's already in trouble. He's taking HOURS to finish homework because he can't focus, is so disorganized now, and panics. I can also tell his depression's bad because he's been sleeping a LOT and stays in his room most of the time. He gets little pleasure out of anything; yet, he is a wonderful young man. Teachers have always loved him because he's studious, respectful & quiet.

At age 10 my son was suicidal. His behavior now is similar. I was afraid to send him to school today. Do I have a right to get him a home tutor while we work through this? He has an IEP and special helps at school, but right now that's not enough.

In addition to the previous post I suggest you notify his counselor. I have had students like your son and it is good to know if they are having some problems. I once had a girl that could not go to the bathroom alone, etc. The counselor can organize and IEP and can notify the teachers to be alert to his behaviors.

Ok. i 15 and i have been having depression lately, is there a reason be hide this and what can i do about this.
thanks,Jamie

Everyone gets depressed occasionally. You should always tell your best girlfriends how you are feeling, good or bad. If it lasts for more than a month or so, or if ending your life seems like an alternative, talk to your parents about it. They might eventually have you talk to a professional. It’s cool. Good shrinks are neat people. If she isn’t, fire her. Yes you can do that. They work for you.

If your parents don’t do anything, talk to a trusted teacher or specialist at school or a minister if you do that. Some schools have counselors just for this. Don’t give up. Unless you have some chemical imbalance which a shrink will find, you will be fine when you get past this stuff. Just talking to people about it will help a lot. Just don’t wait TOO long to get help if you don’t start feeling better in a month or so. Good Luck. You’ll be okay if you keep asking questions and TAKE ACTION !!!

I think that it is up to the public to demand from the government a way to help the depressed people!!
Im doing research any help would be great

Teens have more responsibility these days and everything has gotten more competitive.

Every living being has a unique purpose for which he/she/it was made. You will be able to understand it only if you live your life to the full..

So, stop worrying and if at you haven't started yet… start now.. Start living.

Please Don't exist.

Not being able to get into a relationship with the one they desire…. thats the most common reason

http://www.futureaccountant.com/

According to Wikipedia, Holden Caulfield symbolizes fear. A wealthy young man that is saddened by the "phoniness" that his elite world holds. He hides his true emotions from others which most likely depresses him even further inside. Here are the links for more analysis.

Giving teens more options where they can confide in their problems, without worrying about getting in trouble or someone they don't want finding out, finding out about it.

I don’t want my parents to know, but I want to get help from a specialized professional.

If you’re under 18, I do not know whether a mental health professional can treat you without your parents’ consent.

If I were you, I would first seek a government-subsidized provider. Different states do this differently. Call your dept of health, mental health if possible, and start asking around. You won’t have to identify yourself. Ask if there is a state-funded mental health system, and if so, where the nearest clinic is to you. They may have their own clinics or they may work with a local one. This would at least offer you a possibly discounted program. They all work differently, but our local system will treat someone for $5 a session, depending on need.

Then, once you get phone numbers for those providers, call them and explain your situation, to the degree that you’re comfortable. Ask if it’s possible for you to receive treatment without parental consent. If the answer is no, ask what they recommend. If you find that you’re talking to someone who’s not being helpful, ask to speak to someone else or call back later. You might want to talk to someone who does “intake.”

Another avenue for research of this type can be a hotline, if that is applicable to your situation.

You can also talk to your school counselor. You can ask first whether you will have confidentiality with them. Most likely, if they think there’s a serious issue, they are required to notify your parents – as would any professional. On the other hand, the more serious the issues are that you’re dealing with, the more important it is that you talk to someone.

Depending on what you’re struggling with, if it is a serious enough issue, it may be best to trust that your parents will be forced to stand by while you reach outside of your family for assistance. Once you are in therapy, your therapist will explain exactly what is confidential, just between you and the therapist, and what they have to divulge to parents.

Depression is a serious issue and you are absolutely right in seeking treatment.

Your question actually brings up two problems:

1) You are living in an atmosphere in which, for whatever reason, you do not feel entitled to seek care for something that is ailing you. Remember that your parents have a responsibility to seek care for your ailments, and your welfare should be their priority.

2) You feel you are suffering from depression, which is a serious condition.

It seems possible that these two problems are related, and it may not be possible to separate your parents from your mental health, whether legally or psychologically. Meaning, it sounds as if your seeking help may in some way ‘upset the apple cart’, and that may be unavoidable – unless you want to suffer in silence, which is emotionally very costly.

I would offer this perspective: it is probably easier to begin therapy while you are still a teen, and find at 18 or 20 or 24 that you have enough power in your own life to get treatment when and how you want. It’s hard to get through college or the work world with even mild depression, and then you have less financial support (assuming you have that now).

If it is a matter of being uncomfortable letting your parents in on this, it may be best to grit your teeth and demand what you need. If it is a matter of an abusive situation, then it’s even more important to seek outside help, such as beginning with a school counselor. If it is a matter of your parents’ needs being more important than yours, you might be at a point where you have to stand up and demand that they get you the help that you need.

Think of it this way: imagine yourself a parent. What would you want your teen to do? What would you hope you would do for your teen? Alternately, if you had your wish, how would your parents act to help you?

I commend you on your decision to see someone, and I’m sorry it seems hard to do that. Ideally, your parents would be taking you to a therapist with or without YOUR consent! But since it’s not that way, it is up to you to get your needs met and hope that your parents will cooperate. You do have one safeguard, though: your parents may or may not have a choice but to get you treatment, depending on the seriousness of what is bothering you and what is happening in your life. This is where the phone calls and research come in.

Lastly, if you are not enrolled in school, the state still has a responsibility to help you. You could call a school counselor and anonymously explain the situation, including the fact that you aren’t in school, and ask their advice.

Sometimes we just have to demand what we need no matter how others feel about that. Best of luck.