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1. Ami Said,

   You sound like a very caring husband. I understand that this must be hard. Have her see the doctor, they will be able to get her help.References :

2. remidees_mum Said,

   Good 2 see your considerate enough 2 care. She may have the baby blues which is normal or, like you say, she may be feeling a bit depressed. I went through this but was lucky too catch it early. I felt totally disconnect from my bub for 2 months, i wouldnt even push her pram and said some pretty horrible stuff. I read a book on it and they suggested to picture other people hurting your baby and it really worked. Sounds morbid but u have to make that connection keep an eye on her and help out as much as possible she may have to be put on anti depressants but remember that after she is feeling better she will be feeling guilty about being a 'bad mother' just reassure her that it was her hormones and she had no control over what was happening.References :

3. dreeamer86 Said,

   Postpartum depression is treated much like other types of depression. The most common treatments for depression are antidepressant medication, psychotherapy, participation in a support group, or a combination of these treatments. However, some antidepressants can contaminate breast milk. Women who breastfeed should talk to their doctors to determine the most suitable treatment option .

   The most appropriate treatment depends on the nature and severity of the postpartum depression and, to some extent, on individual preference. It is important to recognize that postpartum depression is both temporary and treatable. 1

   New mothers with postpartum depression can practice a number of self-care strategies.

   Good, old-fashioned rest is important. Always try to nap during the baby's nap time.
   Relieve some of the pressure you may be feeling. Do as much as you can, and leave the rest. If possible, ask your husband or partner to share night-time feeding duties and household chores.
   To help you through the readjustment process, seek out emotional support from your husband or partner, family, and friends.
   Isolation often perpetuates the depression. Get dressed and leave the house for at least a short time each day.
   Make an effort to spend time alone with your partner.
   Ask your physician to advise you on possible medical treatments. Be assertive about your concerns. Not all health care professionals recognize the symptoms or seriousness of postpartum depression. Get a referral to a mental health professional who specializes in treating depression .
   Talk with other mothers, so you can learn from their experiences.
   Join one of the many support groups that are now available to help women who suffer from postpartum depression. Call a hotline to access information and servicesReferences : http://www.wrongdiagnosis.com/p/postpartum_depression/treatments.htm

4. ks_tornado41 Said,

   More than likely she just needs time. It's only been a week and a half, not very long at all. Losing the baby is a major blow to her and she's having a rough time right now. Give her some extra TLC, you sound like you care very much about her. Let her know you are there for her, she needs you. Also, Camomile tea, although it tastes terrible, is good for calming nerves. But if you feel she is suicidal, or majorly out of character, talk to your doctor. Antidepressants can help, but they are just bandaids. They do not work miracles. She probably just needs time to grieve and that's ok. It's perfectly normal after a miscarriage. And it's not too soon to say it's postpartum depression, it starts right after a miscarriage for some women. When I had my son, I had major postpartum depression three days later. As my mother would tell me when things were going wrong, "this too shall pass". And she was right.References :

5. snoopy Said,

   Give her a little time, please. A week and half isnt very long to mourn when you have been thinking about a whole lifetime with a new child. I would suggest going to counseling together to help you understand how she is feeling.References :

6. rain Said,

   i am so sorry to hear of your loss. i wouldn't jump right in to medications though. sometimes you just have to give it time. her smile will return. keeping active with little things might help. going for a walk with her and just holding her hand.References :

7. grannywinkie Said,

   I am so sorry for your loss. You and your wife are in my prayers. Keep the faith. Give her as much time as she needs to morn the loss. It wouldn't be a bad idea to call her doctor and tell what she is going through. If possible, have this converstaion without her knowledge, until the doctor advises you. It may be even better if you make an appointment and have a one to one with doc. Please, do not give up on her. This is so hard on you also the both of you would profit with a counselor who is experienced with this situation. God bless you. Take care and keep in touch.References : grannywinkie